ready to reimagine what home, belonging, and queer community can look like?


Queer people are everywhere. But our stories don’t always venture beyond the city limits.

In On Queer Homesteading, memoir, history, and homesteading practices intertwine to show how tending the land and tending each other can open new pathways for joy, kinship, and possibility.

Want to step into a vision of queer community that is expansive, grounded, and deeply connected – and build a life on your terms, with both deep authenticity and nourishing relationships with people and place?

Here’s what that can look like.

What if You Had the Stories, Practices, and Community Insights You’ve Been Missing?

On Queer Homesteading is your permission slip to stop believing that queer joy, belonging, and connection only exist in cities and start discovering how they thrive in rural spaces. In gardens, kitchens, and shared histories. 

It’s not about “fixing” your life or fleeing upstate. 

It’s about unlocking the wisdom, knowledge, and kinship that have always been part of queer communities—the inner strength and collective resilience we need to endure hard times.

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Join me for a powerful live session (or get the replay) where I answer the most common questions about what it’s REALLY like being queer in the country – including what I wish I knew before I made the big leap!

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An insider invitation that walks you through moving to the country, with a checklist and journaling prompts to help you move from imagining it to exploring it for yourself.


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What Readers Are Already Saying:​

“This essay is for anyone who smells the roses and finds themselves feeling connected to those who came before, and perhaps even feels moved to plant some more for future generations.”
Nina Katz
author of Squelch: A Memoir of Food, Love and Uncertainty
“On Queer Homesteading, a moving collection of short essays on lineage, queer folkways, and land, brings to surface the enduring spirit of the LGBTQ+ community through lived narratives and unwritten histories…A tribute to the vim and vigor of queer grit and radical hospitality.”
Alton Melvar M. Dapanas
author of In the Name of the Body: Lyric Essays (2023)

Hi, I'm Lindsey.

I’m a queer, gender expansive writer who moved from Boston to New York’s Hudson Valley eleven years ago.

Moving to the country helped me step away from the hustle, heal from anxiety, and intentionally build a life on my own terms.

Along the way, I’ve embraced the joys of hiking, kayaking, and foraging for mushrooms, slowing down and savoring the magic in the land around me.

Honoring our queer ancestors and finding common ground despite our differences, could we bloom in the very places we’d been told to leave?

Queer people are everywhere. But our stories don’t always venture beyond the city limits.

I wrote this book to challenge the conventional wisdom.

Join me in reimagining new possibilities.